If you are new to the world of recovery from Narcissistic Abuse, you might be asking yourself why Narcissists seem to love picking fights. This is an extremely valid question, indeed. I asked myself that same question over and over at the start of my healing journey. There is only one possible explanation that I came up with – Narcissists pick fights because they need the supply.Much in the way that motorized vehicles run on gasoline, Narcissists run on getting supply from others. It is their life force. Without it, they will wither away. So they create scenarios that will elicit reactions from us.

Drama

Narcissists love drama. They may be the first to claim that they hate it. But why is it then that they are always surrounded by it?

Simple.

They thrive on the chaos the drama creates. They feed off of the reactions we give them. It’s nourishment to them!

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